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Don’t Plan. Just Do.

Planning. Oh, planning. The bane of many a traveller out there, planning is the thorn in the side of the beauty of exploring new places for so many. Whether or not you’re a person who’s planning is simply booking a flight or bus to their next destination, or a person who likes to have their accommodation lined up well in advance as well as flights  booked several months ahead, it’s a necessary evil that needs to be dealt with.

When it comes to planning, I definitely fall into the latter category. I’m a planning nut who’ll try and figure things out as far in advance as possible, jumping on flights and scoping out things like festivals and potentially awesome CouchSurfing hosts or hotel deals faster than the airlines can charge me those pesky booking fees.

OK, so maybe I’m not quite that fast.

Seoul Subway

Should you just follow the path you've already set for yourself?

I’m heading around the world next year, departing on March 27th, 2013 to be precise. Planning is like crack to me, and I approached the whole idea of scheduling my trip with absolute glee. I decided exactly where I wanted to go, when I’d be there, how long for, and I’d be travelling with my partner. All sorted.

Or so I thought.

My partner and I had initially planned to travel together but this is no longer possible. He’ll just be graduating university or doing an internship and be thrown into South Korea’s viciously competitive job market. Taking time off to travel simply isn’t an option here. So, that’s the first thing that went kaput. I’m travelling solo.

I trust lucky cat to help me make good decisions

The act of planning for a round the world trip, of course, involves a heck of a lot of research. I wanted to go to Africa first and do a safari in Zambia. From there, I’d head through Malawi, down to Mozambique, and fly out of South Africa.

However, when I dug a little deeper, I found that the end of March is a bit of a dodgy time for safaris in Zambia – you’re not really guaranteed to see any animals. Malawi is easy enough to travel in, but crossing the border into Mozambique seems hellish – and not to mention, Mozambique is absurdly expensive. Then, South Africa. The only place in South Africa I have any desire to visit is Cape Town, but all the cheap flight deals I could find – and the best connection from Mozambique overland – operate out of Johannesburg.

Saklikent Gorge in Fethiye

Hopefully I'll climb up and reach the light.

I’ve scratched all that now. I’ll still go to Africa, but I have absolutely no idea where. West Africa? Ghana, Togo, Benin and Burkina Faso? Perhaps. Maybe Ethiopia. Somewhere undiscovered and completely different, like Eritrea? Or maybe I will do that safari in Zambia – but that’s an experience I want to share with my partner.

As I mentioned before, I do have my first flight booked. However, it’s for the USA, not Africa. I’ll be starting in Boston. I asked for advice on where to go in the eastern USA, and received lots of tips and advice on where to go. People commented, “why aren’t you going to California?” Not enough time, I replied.

Then I found an amazing deal to San Francisco. I booked it. So yes, I’m going to California.

Grits are disgusting.

Also, I'll be trying grits despite my initial disgusted first reaction.

From there, I’m off to Colombia – a country I’d planned on visiting almost last on my trip – and after that, Canada. Canada wasn’t even on my list to begin with, and I disappointed a few of my Canuck friends by telling them I wouldn’t be going. Then, it was announced that TBEX 2013 will be taking place in Toronto and, on a whim, I booked a flight from Bogota to Toronto.

Burger B Seoul

This pulled pork deliciousness happened the first time I met bloggers in Seoul. I'm hoping more deliciousness will continue at TBEX.

All this confusion and organised chaos only covers the first two or three months of my trip. I thought I had things down, knew what I was doing, but then I understood something. I understood why people travelling always tell you not to plan too far ahead. Why they tell you that it’s best ifyour plans have some kind of fluiditiy to them.

Things pop up that you don’t expect and you’ll find amazing flight deals or information on things like fantastic festivals, over-the-top visa requirements, inclement weather or seductive foodporn that will change your plans entirely.

Grand Park Seoul

Leave your feet dangling off the edge

So, what am I doing after Toronto? I’m thinking of visiting Montreal. In terms of a country I’ll be going to? I have absolutely no idea. Nothing is planned. Nothing is set in stone. Everything is wide open.

Maybe I’ll decide on something a couple of months down the line. Maybe I’ll decide when I’m in Canada. Who knows?

I’ve yet to hit the road, but I’m already understanding that the best plan to have is to keep your options and your mind open – and to have your finger on the mouse when you find that irresistible deal to somewhere you hadn’t considered before.

 

About the author: Tom Stockwell always had his nose stuck in an atlas as a child, and pretended that the stairs in his home were a magic carpet whisking him away to some faraway country that he’d seen on the map. Now, he’s travelling the world and has taught in Korea, explored snow covered beaches in Poland, partied at Sydney Mardi Gras and almost thrown up from trying durian in Kuala Lumpur. You can keep up with Tom’s adventures through his blog, Waegook Tom, via Facebook, and by following @waegook_tom on Twitter, too.

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7 Responses to “Don’t Plan. Just Do.”
  1. Thanks for featuring my post, you wonderful people! Hope it’ll help out/inspire/interest/pass time for a few of your readers :)

  2. Hey Tom,
    Bookmark my favorite travel website as you travel the world — I like it so much, I’m not even sending you to MY site! How’s that for an endorsement. It’s http://metromarks.com. GREAT site — beta loads easily onto cell phones. You’ll quickly be able to find info on everything from weather, to local events happening wherever you happen to be, lodging, transportation and more. Check it out. I always start there with my travel plans.

    Enjoy the year!
    Karen Dawkins
    Family Travels on a Budget

  3. flahspacker says:

    Can’t wait to read on your blog about Cape Town, this is certainly one destination we’re very interested in visiting. It sounds like you’ve got your trip sorted, I bet you cant wait to depart now most of the travel planning is done.

  4. Leah Travels says:

    You’re going to TBEX!!!! YAY! I’m so excited. I finally get to see if you really are bootylicious.

  5. Julia says:

    This Bostonian is thrilled that you might be around these parts! I think my hometown is mighty underrated… meanwhile grits are delicious comfort food. They’re southern, and shrimp and grits is a cajun staple. I’ll be in Colombia next month, can;t wait!

  6. sometimes planning is essential. I guess it depends on the type of trip though, no? for example, system planning of life of full-time travel, tedious planning is required.

    I like to call them “calculated risks,” though. While I know exactly how I’m spending my money now in order to pay off all my debt before I jet out, I don’t have a particular place or country set for the beginning of my journey.

    when it comes to short trips, I at least jot down a list of some popular places, just so I don’t miss a great site. But I guess you could also just arrived to a place and ask the locals were to go, no? :) I did this once in Curaçao and boy, had a lot of fun! It can also be luck haha :P

    - Maria Alexandra
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  7. Ruth says:

    When I started to travel, a few years ago, I was a planning nut. I was obsessed with every detail. Now, I am more relaxed. I still plan but I have learned to leave some time for the unexpected. I am not saying it is easy ’cause you always want to pack a lot of stuff in a short period of time. Anyway, I enjoy my trips and I am sure you will enjoy yours.
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