Traveling Solo in the USA

 

I admit, deciding to travel to New York by myself was an act of spontaneity but nevertheless, it was one of the best decisions I had ever made.

Because I booked my flights far in advance, I wondered for some time if I would actually end up going by myself or whether one of my friends would end up tagging along. Around the ‘100 Days to Go’ mark, it kicked in and I realised that I was definitely going by myself. Some of my friends and family were surprised when I told them I was going it alone, ‘are you sure?’ popped up a few times. But really, it had been dream of mine to visit New York and I wasn’t going to let that slip away just because no one could go with me.

The subject of female solo travel brings up multiple opinions however, my view is that we really shouldn’t have to feel restricted in any way. Yes, there are some countries that people may be hesitant towards but there is still a world full of destinations, ready to explore.

Before my trip, I did a whole heap of research about where I would be staying, the layout of the city, views on getting around as well as reading suggestions by locals. This preparation definitely made the trip easy-going and I felt incredibly comfortable arriving in New York, well, with the exception of the first 3 hours or so as my luggage went missing. Stepped off the plane, first time to New York, first solo trip and my luggage was nowhere to be found. Those who know me, losing my luggage is a big fear of mine but it’s crazy how much you learn about yourself when faced with a challenging situation. I had no one else to depend on. In a sense, it wasn’t an overly bad start to the trip as I proved to myself that I am stronger than I imagined.

I also read a lot of posts by other solo female travellers before jet setting half way around the world and was enlightened by their views and experiences.

One of the best parts of traveling by myself was the freedom. I had a tour planned one afternoon but decided in the morning I didn’t want to partake, I went to the M&M store at midnight because I had crazy chocolate cravings and spent an hour at Top of the Rock admiring the Empire State Building and city lights at night, simply because I had the freedom to do so. Some people like to play on the whole ‘Eat, Pray, Love’ journey but I really believe traveling solo, especially for us ladies, can be life-changing. For the first time I had found peace and comfort within myself.

Traveling solo may not be for everyone. You might miss the idea of sharing the experiences with other people, there were moments during my trip where I had, but I think there is a great deal missed not traveling solo at least once. It can be quite an inspiring and magical experience.

About the Author: I have a passion for traveling and exploration, finding a great deal of fulfilment in experiencing different cultures and cities through food, architecture and performing arts. I am a self-confessed foodie and consider myself a dreamer. My adventures are documented on my blog, Wandering Mason.

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4 responses to “Traveling Solo in the USA

  1. This is great! I’m exactly where you were at, about 100 days out from traveling to New York on my own, and now I’m mega excited. How long were you there for? Any tips on staying safe as a solo female traveler, or definite “must-do’s”?

    1. Thank you so much! Wow I’m so excited for you! Not long to go 🙂 I am actually heading back there for Thanksgiving this year so I just passed the 100 days mark also!

      I stayed there for two weeks, there is so much to see! Definite must is Top of the Rock at night and the Rockefeller Center in general, the vibe is amazing. Chelsea Markets are great and would also recommend exploring TriBeCa and SoHo.

      Although New York is pretty safe, try and keep your important belongings close to you at all times. There are plenty of people always around so as long as you take caution there really is much to worry about 🙂

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